Make Decisions Like A Boss

Most people go through life and barely learn how to make decisions. We all think we make decisions, but we really don’t.

How many people decide to live a better life? Well most people in the world barely survive so there is your answer. How many people decide to do what they love in life? Very few enjoy that luxury. Most people hate their job. You can see now where I am going with this.

Napoleon Hill in his book “Think And Grow Rich” wrote an entire chapter on decision. I strongly recommend for you to read this book. Don’t get me wrong. I am not trying to pitch this book to you, I just think it would help you understand this topic more.

Do an exercise. What are you trying to decide and it’s holding you back. What inner paradigm forces you not to take that decision. There are people who want to take a trip, but they never make a decision to do it. Instead the make excuses why they can’t go.

Decision is a battle against an inner paradigm. Spend a couple of minutes and think of things that you really want to do, that you have been holding yourself back. Things you really want to do, but you are not making a decision. Keep thinking what you really want to do.

When you are spending time thinking about your decision making, ask yourself two questions:

1. Why I am holding myself back?
2. What am I holding myself back from?

Yes, only you can hold yourself back. Stop blaming everybody else, stop making excuses and take action. It is time to make some quick decisions. The sooner you will accept that sooner you will understand that you are responsible to yourself. This is a key to freedom.

Understand, that I am not trying to judge you, but improving your life can be achieved only by decision. Big and better things in life happen by decision. I don’t believe that something happens by accident and I don’t believe in overnight success.

If you study the most successful people in the world, you would see that they make decisions fast and the rarely change their mind.

This is a skill that you really want to fall in love with. Henry Ford was a great decision maker and look what he accomplished. Remember, never quit if something goes wrong on the way towards your goal. When You make a decision to do something, stick with it. It doesn’t matter how absurd or illogical may sound. If it doesn’t work, change the plan, don’t change the decision. Ignore what other people think.

The point is that people who make fast decisions go straight to the top, and the people who don’t make them seems to go nowhere. Be one of those people who makes decisions.

Find out what you want in life. Write down your goals dreams. Make a decision to change your life with simple mindset techniques and mind power exercises.